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Decent Lady Full of Indecency

Oftentimes, I feel bad for those who for whatever reason, keep suppressing their deviations and interests. To Me, they are the abnormal ones. While I can identify with their fear and confusion during those moments, I feel more drawn to vanillas given that case. Vanilla is delicious in its own right and go-to flavor for many. I will not flavor shame!

Once Upon a Time

You should read Personal Evolution into Dominance. For the whole picture, there is plenty on this website already for you to get a good sense About Me. Here it is the Personal Journal main page.

Moreover, it wasn’t until my late 20’s that I realized that it was too difficult for Me to satisfy the standards as defined by our patriarchal society. I was just playing a role and I take pride that I played it well enough, though.

Forward – The BDSM Arts

I’ve been on and off FemDom BDSM since 2010 but formally in the lifestyle since 2017 and with the professional layer since 2019.

The BDSM – Female Dominant – (Consensual) “Mistress and slave” Power Exchange style Framework and Female Led Relationship is how I manage all of my personal and intimate relationships. It is essential in my personal life.

However, on the professional realm, I specialize solely in Domestic Discipline with certain specific types of role plays and activities such as financial domination. No professional interest outside this area, at the moment. Additionally, My weekly professional time is slim.

Personal Compatibility

The following information applies mostly to My personal and private activities but the information may give you a quick insight about Me.

Service-obedience-oriented slaves and subs that are masculine cisgender-men and feminine cisgender-women with the premise of surrendering control, authority, serving, and obeying with a selfless tone; human-as-object and/or human-as-companion.

Preferred Honorifics

  • Mistress
  • Ama
  • Queen
  • Master

Dynamic Label

  • Mistress/slave

Policies

  • R.A.C.K.
  • S.S.C.

Self-identity

  • Master

Main Activities

  • Sadism
  • Domestic Discipline

Fetish

  • Femdom

D-type overall traits

  • Fluid between the sensual and rough spectrum

Animal Within

  • Jaguar

Must-Haves

  • Worship and Protocol
  • Structure and Discipline
  • Authority and Control
  • Service and Obedience

Main Hard limits

  • Feminization and Sissification
  • Receiving male authority
  • Giving submission or switching

Good to knows

  • Ownership is a drive
  • Variety is fuel to the fire
  • Organic reactions junkie
  • Relationship-connection oriented

Main-Ugly

  • Stoic Sadist
  • Mean Boss
  • Harsh Master
  • Strict Mistress
  • Fiery Queen
  • Moody Woman
  • Eccentric Lady
  • Possessive Owner
  • Raw Primal Predator

Ideal-Have

  • CNC All-Around-Sadism

Relationship-Style

  • Intense
  • Spiritual
  • Long Term
  • Dom Centric
  • Hierarchical Bi-Poly

Physical-Appearance

  • Height: 5’0″
  • Hair Color: Red
  • Eye Color: Hazel
  • Build: Curvaceous
  • Intimate Hair: Waxed
  • Measurements: 40-38-44″
  • Piercings: Multiple
  • Tattoos: Multiple

Other

  • Languages: Spanish, English
  • Nationality: American (PR)
  • Ethnicity: Hispanic
  • Birthday: October, 1976
  • Cisgender: Female
  • Zodiac: Libra
  • Cup Size: D
  • Shoe Size: 7 US

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